greatestdogmom,

Sometimes I want my partner to work out with me too.
But pour water on her? Never.
What a really mean thing to do. It sounds like he is really putting you down and saying some hurtful things. He is not the boss of you, only you are responsbile for you and he should respect that. If he wants to work out, that is his thing. I would really begin to reevaluate this relationship. You have enough to struggle with with your depression. I don't know about you but I already have those voices that I have to battle that tell me I'm no good. You don't need someone else telling you this when they are full of it for saying it. You are a good and important person and you deserve respect, the same respect you would show anyone else.
Elana