There are therapists who don't use transference or the therapy relationship as the core of therapy.

I hope you will find another therapist soon to help you with this. When interviewing therapists, be very upfront about what happened (as you are here) so you will be sure to find someone who can and will help you with it.

You might want to research types of therapies and types of therapists here: www.guidetopsychology.com. It can help you when you begin to search, so you know just what you want to find.