I totally agree with the people who say t's have too much to do to be checking clients online (at least my t's seem pretty busy).

I did get nervous about an odd coincidence with my t, but I feel pretty sure I must just be being paranoid.

I agree that if you post something online it's public and you can expect anyone to read it, but I thought that t's reading it (intentionally) would be an exception to what you should expect. I also think it's even more of a stretch that a t would intentionally read something and keep it secret that they had read it, maybe unless it's some kind of unusual emergency situation. It seems like that would contradict any kind of values I can think of that they teach in therapy.

It's good to know others don't think it's so clearly a violation of ethics for a t to read stuff we post.