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Originally Posted by Protoform
Male T's can be very aggressive and confrontational. They are usually not as caring and compassionate as female T's.
But if I get a female T, what if I end up falling in love with her?  |
I really think every T is an individual.
My T is a male, and he truly is caring and compassionate. And it's very easy for me to imagine a female T being aggressive and confrontational (probably because of my history).
When I was looking for a T, I read descriptions online, and I made some phone calls (most T's are willing to spend a few minutes on the phone with you before you schedule a session), and it helped me make my decision. I was lucky and found someone I could work with on my first try...I know that some people need to try a few different T's before they find one that they're comfortable with.