Wow, this sounds horrible! I couldn't stay if I were in your position. Although this is pure hell for you, imagine what staying may do to your children? I mean, yes the moving may be hard on your oldest, but staying will be worse for him.

I'd like to tell you to just get out since you are not at all happy, but I cannot tell you what to do. You must make the decision.

I just don't want you to hurt anymore.