(((((((((((janesgang))))))))))

It's no wonder that this is such a rough time for you, having suffered such tremendous losses during this month. There are no words that anyone can say to compensate for those losses or your pain, but please do try to tough it out.

You are blessed with a better husband and your remaining children, and with (I hope) joyful memories of your daughter. Maybe thoughts of these blessings can help you to make it through the month.

I know that this is probably the most difficult time for you to avoid s.i., but if you can avoid it now, it will surely give you more strength to avoid it in the future.

I wish that there was something that I could do to make it better. Please know that I am pulling for you.