misty i have to agree with the byz. a relationship is based on mutual respect of each other, trust, and the willingness of give and take.
i find your bf's behavior re a family member alarming and unhealthy. follow your gut feelings about this.
sometimes we think we love someone and if we square off the truth we realize we think that "we love" someone and yet all they do is "take". you deserve better imho.
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