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Originally Posted by Ygrec23
Whether or not you "fall in love" with a female T is entirely up to you.
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False. We have no control over such basic emotions. It's like telling a person not to feel startled if all of a sudden they see an out of control car heading in their direction.
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You do have control over your own emotions, whether you realize that or not. And no female T can "make" you fall in love with her.
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I was careless and got hurt. In the future I will be more cautious and at the first sign of affection sever the relationship.
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From what you say it sounds to me as if some part of you (maybe outside of your awareness) is thinking up anything it can to torpedo your therapy. I think you need to stand up to your unconscious, put aside those self-defeating strategies and commit yourself seriously to getting better through therapy.
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This is not what I went to therapy for. So what if I have emotional problems? I never would have experienced this particular emotional problem if I had never gone to therapy. I am not going to waste time and money with more therapy. What for? To end up with a new problem that "only therapy" can help me fix? No.