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Old Apr 04, 2011, 12:32 PM
R_Summers R_Summers is offline
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If you allow me to vent a little...
I just broke up with my boyfriend of an year and 3 months.So lets say I'm not completly ok, right? I'm a bit down and disappointed with life and feeling a bit on the depressed side of life...
But I have this friend, who doesn't seem to care at all for my feelings.
Let me explain.
She and her ex broke up last July and I was there for her until I couldn't hear her talking about it no more (like two months after it happened I started to give her a bit of tough love instead of the "it'll be alright, and you did nothing wrong"). Although I was super happy at that time with my recent ex, I never mentioned it to her out of respect...
I broke up last thursday.. when I phoned her to talk, to tell her she listened for 4 minutes before changing the conversation to our up coming exam..
It bugged me a lot because I needed to speak with someone and my other friends couldn't pick the phone because there're in class.
But I let it pass.
Every time I needed to vent this past couple of days she changes the topic and ignores me.
Today she even bragged about how good it was to ride the train with her boyfriend (a new one she's been dating for the last 7months) and how they were all over each other like one of those couples she hated to see on the train when she is riding it alone.
C'mon!!
I JUST broke up with MY boyfriend!! I was there for her when her ex broke her heart... I listened for hours, I held her hand, I wiped her tears... I'm not saying I want a prize for it, for I did it because I love her dearly. I just wish she could see how annoying and hurtful she's being rubbing her happiness in my face...
It's not only that. It's happening with her grades as well. She's becoming too competitive and alienating everyone in our group. I'm the only one that still talks to her normally and still defends her.
I'm getting tired of her attitude and I wish she could see it.

Am I wrong to expect some respect for my grieve? ok, I was the one to broke it but it still hurt, and it hurts more than breaking up with some one she only knew for some months like she did but I still heard her complain, I spoke to her on the phone for hours and hours... I never told her a single good thing about my relationship with my ex in that period because I didn't want to hurt her by rubbing my "sucess" in her face...

Maybe I'm being unfair.. but she getting on my nerves ever since the beginning of the school year and this was the last drop...

Should I tell her or let it pass?