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Old Apr 04, 2011, 02:39 PM
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i have to agree with everyone on this. Who IS this family member anyway? This is a bit alarming if you ask me. For a grown man to go into the bathroom while a grown woman - and NOT his mate -- is showering is a bit weird !! He has no business being in there. I don't care if he's shaving or picking his teeth !!

He isn't respecting your feelings ~ and he probably isn't going to counseling because the counselor said something to him that he didn't LIKE. If he's not going to do part of the work to help this relationship, then it's not as important to him as it is to YOU. I 'd be doing alot of thinking about this whole thing and try to make a decision that was the best for ME. It might not include him. Best of luck and God bless. You deserve better. Hugs, Lee