Thank you for all your responses. I have tried to be strong in all this but he is very much set on IT'S ME & NOT THEM.He went to her house alone the other evening to pick something up and I can't help but wonder what else he got while he was there. I suggested we go together but the fact that we live apart and I am across town made it difficult for him to wait for me. It makes me wonder all the time .IF he did this in front of me, what are they doing behind my back? I have tried to move on but he keeps calling and makes me feel like you know what for not talking to him.wanting to move on. He can't sleep. He feels sick. etc etc etc...I love him & I feel for me to totally move on is going to be hard.They both know how I feel about the subject and they have convinced me it's my upbringing and nothing is going on.....I have 5 brothers and 3 sisters but I NEVER and would NEVER allow them to rub my feet or touch me in anyway...nor would I run around in my underwear around them. I feel sick just thinking about it...probably shouldn't have talked about it on here but I don't have anyone else to talk with.....thank you again...hope everyone is enjoying their evening oh and one other thing.....he has told me " IF his family knew I was talking about them like I do , they wouldn't have anything to do with me " I don't really care if his sister talks to me ....neither of them have been married nor have any children ..She has been in like 6 relationships ( all failed) and she thinks its them not her ...things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmm....