Thanks for this, I REALLY don't like the word boundaries either, and I've never been able to figure out why.

It just sounds like something to do with toilet training. Or something you have to learn after not having them..

Most of us know our limits deep down, and want to respect others. It's true they are not set in stone, the hard thing about them is knowing when to negotiate and when you respect the limit. Your t definitely sounds like a keeper.