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you're a good friend and i'm sure you already know you said all the right things. so on to your friend. does she have family that may want this info?
your friend is giving a cry for help but she is taking you hostage by giving you this burden. if it were me, 1.-i'd tell her she already knows what she needs to do. 2. for her to call her pdoc and also go to a meeting ASAP and fess up.
we can't "carry" the person who is using. you've done all you can do but those 2 things i mentioned. after that the ball is in her court. i wouldn't enable her by her calling and dumping anymore. she needs to take responsibility for self. it's "tough love". i'd tell her you can't help her. only she can do that.
hope this helps.
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