bebop...... if this is tough love, it is really hard...esp on me.. Looks like I am starting to weaken.. not as tough as I thought I was...I want what is best for AJ...AM thinking we should have done what you did with your son years ago...IS good knowing that things worked out for you son..and this tough love works...

Family... parents... children...life... success.. failure... all so compliated..

Thank you so much for being there fore me Bebop.. I guess the key to this is "support systems" and "being on the same page'... Somewhere I read, "love doesn't hurt"... But I guess that isn't true.. Because love does hurt...Tough love is hard.. I must try to be stronger...It is only for AJ's good.... I am a push over for sure... but I won't claim that... I will no longer be a softie, push over...