Quote:
|
I have tried to move on but he keeps calling and makes me feel like you know what for not talking to him.wanting to move on. He can't sleep. He feels sick. etc etc etc...I love him & I feel for me to totally move on is going to be hard.They both know how I feel about the subject and they have convinced me it's my upbringing and nothing is going on
|
Maybe you can think about it this way. Regardless of how you were brought up, you still have the right to feel the way you do about their behaviors. If it is bothering you, it is bothering you for a reason. For that reason alone is plenty of reason to end this relationship. If you think it's going to be hard to end it, just think of how hard it's going to be to try to maintain or move forward in the relationship.
Do not allow him to sucker you into believing that you are wrong in how you feel. You are not! Do not allow him to manipulate you into staying with him because he can't sleep and feels sick, yadda yadda yadda. That is his responsibility, not yours. Your responsibility is taking care of yourself and living your life to your expectations, not his or his sisters.
Wishing you well!