I so feel for you all .... Especially at this time for your daughter who I know loves her son very very much but is part of the cause of this she must really be beating herself up at this time.

I was/am partly to blame for my sons problems but no one pointed that out till too late and after years of berating myself I came to understand that no point in looking back just look to the future and do what you can to alter things so things do not repeat themselves.

Please give your daughter my very very best wishes and a hug from one mum to another, I am now crying so its hard to see the screen I will stop.

Hugs to you all.

Ps .... Someone on here once said to me over parenting is just as bad as under parenting. It hurt but its true. Does not make a bad mum.