I'm definitely the jealous type, and it really bothers me because with my current boyfriend I really don't have a reason for it. At the beginning of our relationship I would always feel jealous when I saw him talking with other girls but I was able to remind myself that he picked ME and so I didn't dwell on it.

Our relationship isn't public, because he is my RA in the dorms, and he would get in trouble if his boss found out that he was dating a resident. This is problematic because another girl really likes him, calls him all of the time to hang out, etc. He usually makes excuses, but sometimes they hang out together alone.

My questions are how can I stop feeling jealous? He is the most kind-hearted and honest person I know and I should trust him. And would it be wrong for me to ask him to stop talking to her, meeting her for lunch, etc in light of the fact that it is clear she likes him? I don't want to tell him what to do, but I also don't know how else to deal with this.