He is expected to spend time with all of his residents...he just can't acknowledge that he is a relationship with me to her or anybody else who knows him in a work context, making it hard for me to ask her to back off! But its only the girl who I don't trust. I'm 99% sure that he won't cheat on me. I just wish there was a way for me to stop questioning myself so much, and to stop the jealous feelings, interrogating him about what they do and talk about, etc. I don't want my jealousy to mess things up between us.