I'm a bit perplexed and upset after just recently finding out that one of my boyfriends close friends who is married with two young kids has a girlfriend on the side (he himself revealed this to, he said he thought I knew). In my experience, the company one keeps is very telling of ones nature. Plus even though my boyfriend always says how much he loves me, he has revealed that before me, he was never serious about any girl/woman before. So now, I'm sorta worried- he sounded like a a bit of a playboy before- and I know the old saying, "once a player, always a player." Am I right to be suspicious? Any thoughts on this matter, especially from guys, would be helpful. Thanks.