While I understand your concerns, those things aren't necessarily true. My friend J has cheated on almost every guy she has ever dated. But I would never cheat on my bf. My bf was a little weary of it at first but, I told him everything she did so, if I didn't want him to suspect anything....why would I have been honest about her? Does that make sense? If he was really doing something, I think he would try to steer clear of any talk involving cheating or anything. Simply because people do think like that - the people you keep.....etc...I think he would hide it if he was doing something.

Also, do you think he would have been so open about past cheating if he was doing the same to you? Sounds like he was saying those things to try and say "look, I have done this in the past and have never been serious with a girl because I want you to know how special you are to me that I am being open with you".

That's my take on it. Has he ever done anything else to make you suspicious? Also, what does you gut tell you. For whatever reason, I can find something that obviously belongs to a girl in my bf's things but I know there is an explanation bc I know, in my gut, that he would never cheat on me.

How long have you two been dating? Have you had an open conversation with him about these feelings? His response to these feelings of yours could also be a good indicator. Not accusative but just "this is how I'm feeling right now..."

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