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Hi Everyone,
Thank you so much for all of your replies and support. First of all, I am on medication. I take 20mg of Lexapro on a daily basis. It usually works pretty well....but, I have no energy lately  . I have wondered if I should try to get my doctor to prescribe abilify on top of it after I've seen some of the commercials. |
Definitely talk to your doctor. Some antidepressants don't do much for energy.
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And, yes, I do seriously need to re-evaluate this relationship. Perhaps I should go back to see my therapist. And, yes, my husband does seem to want to control me. I had enough controlling when I was a child. I don't need that in my adult life, too. He often tells me that I act like a child, but I really don't think so. It's exhausting trying to please him all of the time.
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I think that going back to your therapist would be a good idea, at the very least it would help to have someone IRL to talk to about stuff.
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I'm probably not making any sense. .
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You make a LOT of sense.
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Another thing that he did...I once posted the picture that I posted on my profile here to my profile on Facebook and he told me to take it down. Said it makes me look fat and makes him look like he married a fat slob. If he doesn't like the pictures that I post on FB, he tells me that I need to lose weight and that he doesn't want to look like he's married to someone that looks like that. So, he removed the link that says he's married to me on FB. That hurt my feelings, too . It's hard because we've been together since I was 21...and, I do love him. He also has some great qualities that I'm not listing. I don't know what will happen if we split up. |
If you split up, you'll deal with it when and if the time comes. You'll get through it, talking to a therapist or someone about how to cope would be a good step. I'm sorry he was so insensitive to you, you don't deserve that at all.