Hi Lexi,

It's so important to stay safe, and I hear you when you say that you have the strong desire to cut when you've been fighting with your b/f. It also sounds like there have been quite a lot of disagreements lately. Have the two of you thought of going to couples' counseling, either to learn about different ways of handling disagreements....that might be less upsetting to both of you....or evaluating your relationship with the help of a thrid party? I'm wondering if it is this unsafe for you and prompts you to do SI so much, or even crave it so much, if you really want to stay in this relationship. It sounds like it may not be a safe situation for you if you are fighting so much. It sounds incredibly stressful. Thinking of you and wishing you well - please take gentle care of yourself, Lexi.

Take care,
ErinBear