Dear MacD,

Hmm - well, I know why he does not find me physically attractive any more, all one has to do is just read over the post I have made on here to find that answer.... it is because I no longer look like I did when I was younger and had not yet had 3 children stretch my body out of its once firm slender sexy figure.... like the images he once allowed into his eyes and mind, that which he now finds attractive.

There is harm in lusting, never let someone tell you there isn't.... if they do they are lying.

BTW - I did not say that he did not desire to be with me, for he does and we are, I said that he no longer finds me to be physically attractive as he does other females - there is a difference.... this problem effects me more than it does him or how he sees our marriage.

He loves me for me and not for my looks, he said my value to him goes beyond that.... I just have an emotional problem with knowing that I am no longer physically attractive to him, hence the fear if our marriage can make it or not, if that part of the relationship goes / fails?

LoVe,
Rhapsody -