Sleeps , its hard to do , when you feel so unloveable. I understamd what you are saying though. And I wish I could get to that point .. believe me.To even feel like I deserve to feel loved would be nice.
I dont think the problem lies within the T we have. I think he is good. I think its us...just implementing the tools. The more tools my husband is given the more empowered he feels and the more controlling he gets. And he is just taking over.