Thank you for your post peridot. You actually made me laugh. Immaculate conception- why haven't I think of it?
I have a male T, find it easier to talk about the S stuff. I would be ashamed to talk about it with female. I guess I consider sex to be a male thing.
Never mind I know the laugh, I do it when I am nervous. Yours probably sound better cause I hate it.
Just today, out of the blue, he shared a really personal thing. I don't understand why he said it and still think of. I like to pretend he doesn't do THAT (though he has 5 children). I must ask him, cause I kind of felt scared/angry him poiting it out.
I am so glad it bring you closer to your T and I do believe we can overcome this and have a normal life.