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SleepsWithButterFlies said:
I not only bet it can but bet it DOES in many to most cases....I do not think most people stay hot to trot for one another after a ton of years..of course the grass is always greener ...and odds are..he could not get the Barbie anyhow..

I think most spouses just dont say

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AND you state he loves the sum total of you..see above with both you have love that will endure..NOW you may need to work on your own self esteem I do not know but your hubby was honest and most men would lie...WHO looks the same 20 years later..This to me, is a YOU working on you kinda thing,