You, as my T, would say, "Listen, Suratji, we have been over boundaries in the past and can't you finally understand how beneficial and helpful it is for you to maintain these boundaries."

And I would think - "yeah, sure, they work for you"

And then you would continue to explain to me the rules of the therapeutic relationship. And it would be pointed out to me that, like usual, I expect too much from people and I hope they would voluntarily be there for me and it's very good I brought this up at this time because it's an issue we need to continue to address.

And I would think, "Yep, it's my fault again. I care too deeply."