My T respects my boundaries when I tell her. But they keep changing; they aren't solid. I never thought I wanted hugs, but now I do. Other boundaries are anatomy words I don't want her to say. She also knows we can't be in the bathroom at the same time, but that may change at some point too. She knows I don't want her doing EMDR by tapping on my knees.

Her boundaries changed too. She answered all my emails, then she said she couldn't do it anymore. Everything else seems to stay the same, though.