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Old Apr 06, 2011, 10:14 PM
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Originally Posted by rainbow8 View Post
I always wished I could have more than 50 or 60 minute sessions, and it was a sort of fantasy but also a real need. When I asked my T and she agreed to 90 minutes, I was in shock. I still am. It's the best gift (though I pay more for it) that she ever could give me. poetgirl, I don't think it's a selfish wish. Some of us process things more slowly, and need the time. I used to feel SO frustrated with my former T after 50 minutes! I hated it. I was never ready to leave. It's different now, with more time. I don't think 50 minutes is long enough, though I know the reason. An hour is considered enough, but the T needs time in between. But 50 minutes is NOT enough, in my opinion. Sorry for going off topic, but I feel strongly about this subject!!!
I would do it if I had an extra $320.00 a month laying around. It already feels too self-indulgent to pay the $320.00 I'm paying right now. Again, not that T doesn't deserve it, she does, but I just can't afford it.