As much as you probably do not want to hear this (because I know I did not ).. You probably are not falling in love, but are becoming infatuated with people. Love takes time and takes getting to know a person. I have the same problem with "falling" for guys very very fast and feeling like I cannot be without them. But now I know that it is indeed infatuation and not love. Infatuation is defined as an " all-absorbing passion"...you have consumed yourself with this person and they are not participating in being overly passionate about you... I know with me, I want to be with someone so badly that I will become infatuated and convince myself that I love everything about this person.. It is just me being foolish tho.. Hope this helps