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Originally Posted by animasana
I'm really sorry to hear about your friendship troubles. I was very interested in your story because I've gone through something similar. I can also relate to your history of hiding emotions, and being hesitant to trust people.
In my opinion, from experiences of trying to work through problems, there are some friendship issues that can't be resolved. I honestly feel like, at this point, your guys' relationship is probably over. There may be hope that you could re-establish contact in the future when you've both had time to fully move on and reflect on the situation. But I feel like that is something that may take time. I really think the best thing to do is just let the situation cool down.
Understand that you are a great, caring person regardless of whether or not she wants to remain friends with you.
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Hi. First of all thank you for your reply and I apologise I have not replied until now. I found myself in a rather dificult situation (health related) and just got home to read your wonderful words of support. Yes-the friendship is over-if I have ever hoped to renew it-the hope is gone. She hurt me a lot (I am not saying I did not do that to her as well), however, this is not spite or anger speaking-this is the fear I would get hurt again. I still do not understand her behaviour, I would even call it irrational-but maybe I am just not able to put myself in her shoes. She obiously has not tried the same-so yeah-I have had a lot of broken friendships in my life-this is the first one that got to me so badly. Anyway, thank you very much.
I do have a few close friends who prove to me over an over again then I am not worthless. If you ever need a talk-let me know.