Ideas for bedtime:
Cloud B has some awesome sleepytime products and toys. I have the Twilight Turtle and Twilight Ladybug for my kids, we've used them for 4 years now. Amazon sells them, too. If I were to buy another product from them I would get the Lavendar Lab.
http://cloudb.stores.yahoo.net/ongo1.html
Another item along the same lines as the Twilight Turtle, but with the added feature of motion would be something like a Harmony Lantern
http://www.harmonylantern.com Maybe there is a cheaper version out there somehwere...?
Also, my son has a small fan in his room that he likes turning on at bedtime. It provides white noise that really helps him sleep better. I told him that it can "blow away" any monsters or bad dreams.