Please do not send him to a military school. Anything to do with the military is awful. It's basically considered a cult by some psychologists. Discipline is not everything, love is everything. I have friends who have friends. One went to a military school and did something wrong so they locked him in a room with no food or water for a day. I had a female friend who threw a chair at a teacher once in class...she turned out ok a few years later. Not so good grades, but did really well in gym :P