thank you everyone for your support , i do have to look forward new start with the year we have had ,
for me moving away even if it is to another housing estate would be good because then i would be away from the destructive neighbour that lives in the house next door, oldest daughter hasnt seen her for about 3 mths now but getting her away will help as well ,
my only problem is sorting everything out trying to keep hubby involved , but not pushing him to much ,
as we have lived here for 14yrs there are lotsof things to go through clean out the rubish and pass on what we dont need,
i have a couple of good neighbours that have been there for me but if they are my friends moving shouldnt end this,
havent told the children yet waiting for a date, going to stay in the area for them
thanks again for your support