We have been to counceling...He ( the councelor called me jealous ) however, if I told him everything I think he would have changed his thinking. The b/f loved every minute of him grilling me about my jealousy ...we went 4 times and the b/f decided he didn't want to go anymore...he said, he wasn't getting anything out of it...I feel it was because we were starting to get to the core of the problems. I don't know but I'm just praying I can stay strong ...I can't be with someone that makes me feel I can't trust him while I'm not there. he knew when he went to her house that it was going to upset me ...I told him I would go with him but I guess it wasn't the right time for him...I don't know. but , if they do things in front of me then what are they doing behind my back ? when you are in a relationship ... the only person that should touch you is your mate...am I wrong about that?