"Once a player always a player" and "birds of a feather flock together" has been proven to me several times. Players usually become tame when they can't "perform" as well as they used to and now they are looking for someone to take care of them. Actions speak louder than words so watch carefully how he treats you. I won't even give a man second chance if he even ogles another woman in front of me.....that is usually a good indication of a player. Players = Pain so stay away from them and don't waste the pretty. Good luck in your decision.