I think Sky has a point about how you view Anne. I looked at Vicki as out to destroy the body, hurt us any way she could, was rebellious and I really didn't like her much at all. Then she started talking to T. She talked about her abuse and how she really tried to protect me over and over. She protects the littles with all she has and carries alot of pain inside her.

I have a very different view of her now that I have gotton to know her and what she has done and is doing for the body and the system. She still has issues of wanting to hurt herself, but talks about them first now instead of acting first and then saying she did it.

My thought is get to know Anne before you really judge her.
((((Safe hugs))))
w_i