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Old Jan 19, 2006, 11:59 AM
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One more QUESTION....

Does anyone have any advice on this situation.... (short version)

Husband has had a sexual addiction problem for 10 years or more and while he is trying to give up, STOP, this negative behavior (lusting) he now finds that he does not wish for the past inappropriate lust /sex to interfere with his marriage (to be the only part of intimacy), therefore, he remains and stays a little distant from his wife sexually (often rejecting sex), for he desires to connect with his wife in other areas of life, on a deeper level - outside of the bedroom.

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How is a wife in this situation to manage with the man she loves knowing that he will not be able to be with her sexually, or at least not with her time table? - for he is content with 1x a week if not 1x every 2 weeks.... while she desires sex (bonding) more often - say 2x a week.

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HELP!! HELP!! HELP !! HELP!!

Thanks.......
LoVe,
Rhapsody -

P.S.
LMo - I would love to hear your input on this matter.... as well as from others.