she hasnt really mentioned boundries.but about after a year and half she put her foot down about emails and mailing letters.she didnt want me to do it .she said she knows it is hard and confusing because she had always let me do whatever i wanted.shesaid it was because she wanted me to talk about things not write because i was hiding behind e-mail and letters instead of using my words,i would send her a letter or e-mail and then not talk about it.she didnt call it a boundry but it sure felt like i had crossed one