That impresses me, too; it shows that you have a great deal of insight.

I know how hard anniversaries can be; my mom died five years ago in September, and I still have a very hard time on those days. And dealing with an alcoholic parent is not fun -- I know that from experience. They never are able to offer the support you need, it's always all about them.

Perhaps your friends are just very busy. I hope at least one of them calls you back soon. And you always have us here at the forum.

I wish the best to you, garden gal