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Originally Posted by LydiaB
Would it be weird to shoot him a thank you email? ,,,,,,Or is that like me trying to take care of him? Because I want his self esteem raised? I really just want to let him know that I appreciate the new outlook. But will he just assume that when I don't complain? Or do you think I should make it more obvious that I appreciate it? ......
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seems like a good question, not an odd question.
for starters, if you feel thankful, the authentic thing to do would be to say thanks.
also you are not responsible for his assumptions, if he has them.
lastly, Ts are people too, wherever they may be on the "blank slate" spectrum. It's perfectly naturual to want to hear a thank-you now and then, would you say?