You are supposed to feel what you are comfortable with..... and that feeling will and does come from how you where treated and loved (or not) as a CHILD.
If you were loved you will feel warm and fuzzy, If you were protected you will feel safe, if you were abused or rejected you will feel: sick, lonely, empty, fearful, anxiety, panic, hatred... the list goes on.

One cannot understand some thing they were never given....

LoVe,
Rhapsody -