Meds could be causing this.... I have severe recurring MDD and the only time I had difficulty "getting there" was when I was on depakote, for pseudo-seizures. I am on klonopin right now, and have no difficulties. Zoloft didn't give me difficulties either, but everyone is different. The few times that I haven't been able to get there, was very frustrating. You get so tired and worn out, and no satisfaction. So i understand... Also, I have never had an orgasm during sex. But i can make myself get there no problem. so if its during sex you are having that problem, then that is really normal, only a small percentage of women can actually climax during intercourse. boyfriend and i get me there by outer stimulation after he has gotten there during intercourse all the time, that is our normal routine LOL