((((((((((((Suratji))))))))))))

For many T's, this is a boundary of therapy. They will not called unless the client specifically asks for a call. It's not because they aren't worried, or because they don't care, or they're not attuned. It's because it is up to the client to ask for what they need. Therapists can't read our minds, and no matter how badly we want them to call, they need to hear it from us.

When I have been in these moments and have finally forced myself to call T and say "I need you to call, I can't stand this", he always says "I'm glad you asked for a call". They want to help us, AND the relationship is what it is.

Give your T a chance to help you.