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Old Apr 08, 2011, 06:07 PM
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So this is kinda dumb high school drama, but it is a serious issue and i have no idea what to do!!
This guy i am bringing to our spring formal (i'm a junior, he's a senior, we go to diff schools), i know him from church and we are good friends. He has a girlfriend who lives in state, but kinda far so he only sees her once a month. His girlfriend is a sophmore. She is going to her school's prom with a guy, and also my date's prom. He is rationalizing that it is ok by saying that he wants her to have a good high school experience and he does not want to ruin it for her...it makes no sense.
He compliments me alot in a more-than-friend way like saying i'm hot and that he likes my body and how he would go out with me if he didn't have a girlfriend. he has recently been giving me longer hugs and massages when i ask for one, ever since i asked him to go with me. My friend tells me not to be "that girl", but i'm not really doing anything. i'm not seductive or anything, he's just a total flirt and i dont know what to do. i do want him and his gf to break up because their relationship is just a waste of time since they never see eachother and he always complains about being lonely, but yet says that he loves her. idk what to do!!! advice?