I had met the love of my life...we are so committed...at first we meet each other through both his family and my family both got along very well,...People started talking rumors and ******** about me and my mother which are not true. It was apparent because of jealousy.
however from there its been the longest 5 months of my life...both families fight ...his mother doesn't want me...my mother doesn't want him...he comes into my familes house one day and says that his mother tells him he needs to know me more for at least 3 months before we have our ceremony done...which is complete ******** to me. his mom tells him he still doesnt know me ..he says he is willing to leave his family and live at my families house until he can get a place of his own....

my parents- no we will give 3months and also give him 2years!!!
i dont want to wait that long but my family doesnt let me decide for my life...


so far now we are waiting for the 3months ...my family still fighting with me to leave him
i cant leave him,,.....everyday i cry in bed HELP!!!!