After 20yrs I ended up in rehab for stress, and got diagnosed with Bipolar. That's when my family found out because they had been hiding family secrets. I got married last year, and I told my husband right away. He has been learning about the condition,reading and going to the doctor with me. However, I never plan to tell anyone at work, I pretend to be like everyone else, but I don't socialize. Don't have to worry about friends because I have none. I just live in my own little world. Also, this a great site because know I know I am not alone, lots of great help and support.