He mooned you?!?! I agree with you--I think it was a little insenitive of him to ask if she could stay. Well, to his benefit, at least he asked and didn't just give her the invite without even talking to you first. My future-ex very likely wouldn't have even consulted me. I don't know how many times people have told me while we were married that they were waiting to see me on the Jerry Springer show. Why don't we see if we can go on together?