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Originally Posted by Suratji
I have my own needs that I've neglected.
But, the thing is, I don't want to have my own needs. I want everyone else to have their needs met and I can be the giver, not the taker.
It's such a difficult idea to wrap my mind around - that I deserve having my needs met too. I don't even want to acknowledge that I have needs. So it feels very very bad to spend all that time talking about myself (but I do it very well, you know)
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Originally Posted by Suratji
It just feels so unnatural and uncomfortable to talk about myself for 50 minutes straight and to have someone listen intently to me that whole time. I love it because it feels like I'm finally being heard but it still feels wrong to me.
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Do you understand where all of this ^ came from? (I feel that we can't release ourselves from our issues until we can trace it all the way back to the seed because you have to release your issue from the seed).
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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