I did leave out something in my last post. As I said I do not relate sex to love in any way AND at the same time I do not like, want or enjoy sex in any way. I hear that it is a basic human need, but I do not seem to need it because I am still living. I'm not sure if this changes anything about what I had originally posted, or if it changes anything on the reason why i do not believe sex and love are related. The whole concept of needing sex baffles me, as I know my not needing and wanting sex baffles others. I do however need to be loved. Does this make me in some way selfish?